Having Sex with your Ex

Like anything else in life, some things just don’t last long, like relationships. But if you haven’t been seeing anyone for the past few weeks or months already, and your ex and you knew each other’s sexual health status, perhaps hooking up with each other would be much safer than having sex with a total stranger. But even if you’re already familiar with each other, there are lots of potential minefields to consider, especially when deciding to have sex with your ex. Here are a couple of don’s and don’ts of ex-sex that every guy (and girl) should remember.

Asian Escorts PerthManage Your Expectations (And Hers)
If ever you get a chance to meet again (and hook up) with your ex, you need to keep in mind that this occasion is just about sex, and nothing more! If you can’t accept that fact, then perhaps you’d be better off having a good (and less emotionally-disturbing) time with hot and sexy Asian Escorts Perth!

Perhaps you could open up to your ex by saying “We may not be in a relationship anymore, but I’m still attracted to you, and would love to share that part of our relationship again”. But remember: be clear on whether you’re just looking for a quick release, or if you’re trying to recreate something that’s broken already.

Practice Safe Sex
Even if you and your ex are already familiar with each other, you shouldn’t discount the fact that you’ve already broken up, and there’s a possibility that she (and you too) could have hooked up with others between the break up, and now.

Unless both of you would require the other to show a set of clean test results (and hurt each other’s feelings in the process), it would be better if both of you agree to practise safe sex. Thus bring a condom with you whenever you hook up with your ex, because sacrificing your health isn’t worth an hour, or a night of nostalgic sex.

Remind Yourself Why You Broke Up
While the sex may feel so good, the fact is that you and your ex have already broken up, and once you’ve done it, there’s no going back! So before you jump into bed with your ex, take time to think about why things didn’t work out with the two of you.

Do Not Fall Back Into Old Communication Patterns
Just because you hooked up with your ex again, doesn’t mean that you should be texting or talking regularly again. Even if your ex is the one who reaches out to you afterward, remember that you broke up for a reason, and reuniting could possibly reignite old resentments again.

Don’t Talk About Past Issues
And even if you’ve hooked up with your ex, it still does not automatically fix whatever bad happened in the past. If the past comes up, instead of yelling or making a fuss, why don’t you gently cut off the conversation, and say you don’t want to go there again.

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